Hi, wasn't there on Saturday but heard a little bit about it.
Your interpretation of the rule is correct and it does sound as if you didn't lose control of the game, however, if you say you did to an extent, then maybe???? However, what is more worrying to me is that once again, someone doing their best is put off refereeing or helping in general because of one or two selfish and stupid individuals.
I know I have not always been a saint, but have and continue to work hard on getting the level between representing the team and point of view in certain situations on and off the water and going too far and looking like a numpty, right.
With regards to the sending off, without any names being mentioned, the player in question used to have (20 years ago for us old enough to remember!) a bad reputation. He has been at regional training a few times and looked like, after 16 years out the sport, to have changed his ways. Sounds like he hasn't and whether or not he was repeatedly fouled or goaded into reacting, it sounds like the sending off was the correct decision. Maybe it is harsh on him to say leopards and spots, but it is a tad concerning.
No, you don't have to referee like Mr. Dancer, although lets face it, the general idea of where he was trying to get to was right; it was the methods that wound people up, and it is a shame that a few short sighted prats have denied the governing body of a committed individual.
I do like my idea of only speaking through the captain, or as captain, taking on the responsibility for talking if required (rarely), but have found it hard to adopt in my own play over the season. I will keep trying though. I think not playing 1/2 the season doesn't help though!
Anyhow, please keep reffing; I think you're quite good at it and could certainly become qualified quite easily. I know Ray and I were talking about doing a regional reffing course to get more people qualified. I was thinking of doing something before the nationals so people could get themselves assessed there. What do you reckon?